In this world of texting, e-mail, and social media, I am concerned that the art of conversation is being lost. It seems there is an emerging generation that is terrified to sit and have a face-to-face conversation.
Although technology is a useful tool and helpful servant, as a master it is dehumanizing. As an example, when you confront conflict and must engage with people who see things differently than you, I believe it is best to sit face-to-face and give your full presence and attention. It is a rare and powerful gift to truly listen to another person to understand and feel their experience before addressing a problem.
I encourage you to look for opportunities to be with people and have meaningful conversations. Put the phone and i-pad aside and give your full and undivided attention to the other person. Ask good questions and listen deeply, not just to the words, but to their spirit. As you listen, maintain a true curiosity, validate your understanding, and then seek to respond and serve them with your words. This is a powerful expression of love and care. As you speak, choose your words carefully, and be willing to open up and take the risk of being transparent and vulnerable.
If you desire to lead others, I recommend you work hard at developing the art of conversation. Practice listening empathetically, and then serve others with carefully chosen words. Seek to improve your vocabulary, use of language and communication.
I would enjoy a conversation with you! Email me at davebeam@mentordavebeam.com and we will set up a time to connect.
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